Friday, April 8, 2016

New and Old Friends, getting oriented

April 3
It is Sunday morning and still no Internet. Yesterday, we used Ron’s phone to access our email but that isn’t working today. We have an appointment to see an apartment at 11:00. I found it on line in December but seeing it in reality is a requirement as far as we are concerned.

Yesterday we mostly hung around the hotel. In the morning we looked at the second place the university staff had picked out for us. It was a large three story house. It was a little dated looking. The hot water heater used wood to heat the water for the washing machine, not electricity or gas. That was a first for us. It had one bedroom on the ground floor, two bedrooms on the second floor and one on the third floor. It turns out that it is a shared house. So we would rent the ground floor with kitchen and laundry privileges and others would rent the second and third floor. There was one entrance to the house so the other renters would be walking through our part of the house to get to their part. Not for us. I told Ron I would hire an agent to help me find us a place since the university’s choices were far off our idea of a suitable place. Later in the day I got some tips from our friends here on good neighborhoods, promise of sending some agents my way and tips on some useful websites. We finally found an ATM that took Ron’s debit card and got some cash. My card which is identical to Ron’s on the same bank didn’t work so we will have to call Monday night to see what is up.

We went out to dinner with Scott, Ron’s two former colleagues, Manvita and Megdha, her husband and Manvita’s adult son. It was a great restaurant with a varied menu with dishes from around the world. They had chicken on the menu so I had a chicken risotto which was great. It is another good place to return to at later date. The vast majority of restaurants here are ‘pure veg’ as this is Hindu country and no alcohol is served anywhere in the state of Gujarat.

A Man in a Hat
Ron wears hats year round. In the winter it is to keep his head warm and in the hot weather to protect his head from the sun. So here in India he wears a Panama hat and he looks like an older Indiana Jones. To my eye he is more handsome than Harrison Ford. When we are out walking the Indian men on the street notice his hat then notice Ron. They call out to him with a friendly ‘hello’ or ‘hello sir’ and with a charming grin. I think they all would like a hat like his.  Ron thinks they are laughing at him.  We’ll probably never know.

We are definitely in the ‘adjusting phase’ of being in a new culture and location. We are adjusting to the very hot days, a new currency, a very different diet, limited access with no car and no decent pubic transportation. (riding in an bus with no AC in this climate would cause me nausea) adjusting to having no Internet since arrival although has been the worst of the challenges.


Did I mention that our neighborhood is quite dirty. Dirt is on the sidewalks, leaf litter abounds as dies some trash. I wash my feet frequently because they get dirty wearing sandals here. We have so much to be grateful for in the US.

I asked on three separate days to have someone unlock the locked safe in our room. Each time I was told, ‘okay I will send someone up.’  After the third request someone called from the front desk and admitted they didn’t know how to unlock the safe. So they brought another one up and put it on the bottom shelf of the closet. You have to stand on your head to read the instructions and set your code. However it doesn’t work either. It is unlocked but beeps loudly when I try to set the code. So for now my safe is our locked suitcase.

Fortunately we have lucked out with every restaurant. The food has been excellent. The food is very oily as much is fried here or the dishes with sauces are heavy with oil, but all of it has been well prepared and tasty. We are amazed at the low cost. Last night at a nice restaurant with cloth napkins and tablecloths and a large wait staff, we ordered drinks (this is a dry state so drinks have no alcohol), a fabulous roasted cauliflower dish that had been marinated and grilled with onions and peppers, two kinds of bread and another veggie dish that was wonderful. All of that was a bit over $10 for the two of us. Saturday the restaurant served some meat dishes (chicken, lamb and seafood but never beef in India). McDonalds was only allowed into India by agreeing to not serve beef. We have been struck by how many dishes are possible here with only veggies; things I never imagined..

Today we looked at a place I had found on line before leaving the US. It had three bedrooms, three baths (Asia style), living room walled off in a glass cube so it could be air conditioned. That left the kitchen and dining room without AC, the two hottest rooms in the house since they were next to each other. It was the best we have seen but not good enough shall we say. I am afraid the house hunting will take longer than I had hoped but that is all part of the package. Ron got a call at lunch from a person who works with Manvita who offered to help me on Monday. I have my fingers crossed since I really don’t know how house hunting goes here. It is helpful to look as it helps me to refine what we need and communicate what we need. One major difference between the US and India is maintenance of buildings, homes, structures and infrastructure. Relatively new buildings look quite worn from lack of maintenance. After seeing three places I think we definitely will have to spend some money adding furnishings like mattresses, a desk, and more and equipping the kitchen at the very least. Mattresses here are thin foam pads. Beds are low to the ground. The kitchens have either had no tableware and cookware or it  was inadequate. None of this concerns me. It takes be back to our experience in Sri Lanka where we rented a brand new house completely unfurnished. Those furnishing now reside in our Thai house.


The neighborhood we are in now doesn’t have much in the way of shopping. I have not seen a pharmacy since arriving. The shops nearby are small clothing stores or really tiny stores with dry goods. There are some street produce vendors. But I have not seen a grocery store yet. Since I don’t have internet I don’t know what the temperature has been other than damn hot. Last night we walked to a restaurant for dinner and walked home at 8:30 and it was still damn hot with the heat radiating off the street or sidewalk.

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