Tuesday, August 23, 2016

The fabric of our life

August 23, 2016
I arrived home on Saturday around 5:00 a.m. and had not slept on the plane. On the trip from Colombo to Mumbai my seat mate talked with me the entire trip. The trip from Mumbai to Ahmedabad is all of 50 minutes so no time to sleep. When I got home, I couldn’t get the door to open with my key and after trying a few times I slapped my forehead as I realized Ron had bolted the door. I told Rahul I would sleep in the tiny car until Ron woke up and came to look for me. Rahul went around to the side yard and came back. “ Madam come with me”.  He shined his cell phone flashlight and he showed me how he could climb up the gate and get to the second floor and tap on the window to wake Ron. I said I thought it was too dangerous in the dark. Have I mentioned that we hired two buttheads who are working for two buttheads? So up he went, tapping on the window saying “Sir come open the door”. He could see the light go on in the bedroom so Rahul and I went to the front door. A sheepish Ron opened the door and said ‘I was stupid’. We all laughed. Rahul headed home and I went to bed. Unfortunately I couldn’t get to sleep but it felt good to be in my honey’s arms and to be prone. Ron comforted me regarding my sadness. We gave up trying to sleep around 6:30 and started our day. Around 10:30 I crashed for a 90 minute nap. The rest of the day is a blur.

August 24

On Sunday we went to the Calico Textile Museum, run by a private foundation. The collection which is a fabulous collection of Indian textiles, some over 500 years old, is housed in a palace. So it was like a double treat, seeing the beautiful architecture and the exquisite textiles from all regions of India. Some were woven with gold threads, real gold. There were so many styles; some very sophisticated textiles and some were primitive but each and every one was special.  





The museum is free, does one tour a day with 20 people and has a small shop that sells books and photo reproductions of some of the textiles. That’s it. 




We were served tea and boiled peanuts afterwards. The tour is tightly controlled and no one is allowed to tarry. The technical section had samples of how some of the textiles are made. For example there were the intricately wood blocks that are used for wood block print fabrics. We talked Rahul into going with us. Sometime he stays with the car but I have been encouraging him to join us since what we see is part of his culture and his history. 


He said he enjoyed it. While I was away he and Ron went to a vintage auto museum. When I asked Rahul if he enjoyed it he exclaimed ‘Yes Madam, there were cars older than I am’. He is in his early 30’s.

I am enjoying our cooler weather. I wouldn’t call it cool but it is no longer blistering hot. Today it is 84 degrees with 79% humidity which makes it feel like 101 according to our weather site. As I said I don’t call that cool!

Ron had a class scheduled for today, his first and it got moved yesterday to next week. He isn’t happy. We will leave here on Thursday, a national holiday for Krishna’s birthday, and go to Navsari about six hours south of here to see our friend Raju and his family. It will be our third visit as Ron did a professional exchange with Raju when Ron worked for the city of Portland and Ron came to India for his part of the exchange when we lived in SL. We came one other time for a visit. On those visits 12 people lived under one roof, a large lovely home that Raju had designed. There were four generations of one family living there.  Rahul will drive of course as neither of us ever intends to drive here unless we have a lobotomy! I was so impressed with the driving in SL after living here for four months. It is sane there; they stop for traffic signals, they drive in their lane going in the correct direction, etc. On Friday Ron will meet with municipal managers in Navsari to try to get some interest in his program. The program is moving very slowly and Ron really wants to get it rolling.

I am enjoying cooking more but it takes an inordinate amount of time because veggies are so dirty, must be soaked in filtered water and picked through if it is lettuce, cilantro or parsley. I don’t have tubs of filtered water sitting around so each task requires that I draw some water for the washing. I have mentioned before this is not like turning on the spigot. It filters slowly, slowly.  Anyway, today I got a recipe where I have all but one ingredient for a Thai veg curry. That is the other deterrent to cooking here: finding the needed ingredients. I haven’t seen canned tomatoes for over a month. For awhile I couldn’t find black beans. Now I shop like a hoarder. If I see it I buy three of whatever the item is. I squealed with delight yesterday when I found Thai red curry paste.


My neighbor Kamla has not been able to cook for over a month so we have pretty much been on our own regarding food. Her live in manservant does the cooking now and he is not as accomplished as Kamala. I usually don’t pay attention to the price of food. If I want it I buy it but I did notice that a small bottle of maple syrup from Canada is $15 and a small jar of marinated artichoke hearts is a little over $11.’Who cares?’ as my friend Dottie used to say. I am so grateful for familiar foods and eating here is quite cheap for the most part so I can easily splurge when I find a treat like these two items.

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